By Raha Khan
When LaShawnna Harris’s eldest daughter Asali Harris first told her that she was interested in joining the military, she couldn’t help but worry. She knew she would miss her terribly and felt protective over her, though Asali was completely committed to her decision and had a well-developed plan which helped ease some of her initial fears. Though Asali had moved away for school, her time in basic training would be an entirely different experience from college, where LaShawnna had been able to see her frequently and talk to her on the phone. Being far away from family, friends, and a support system can be extremely difficult and lonely, something LaShawnna wishes more people knew about regarding the experience of military service.
“Trying to stay connected to my daughter even in basic training and AIT when she had very limited access to a phone was important to me,” LaShawnna shares. “The letters, packages, and calls really make a difference for active soldiers.”
Many active-duty military members and veterans experience loneliness and mental health struggles, and these were only heightened last year with the global pandemic. Asali enlisted in early 2020 right before the start of the pandemic. What LaShawnna expected to be a routine and predictable process, given the 1.4 million active-duty members who have gone through the training, turned out to be more difficult than expected as pandemic related restrictions heightened. It was months before she was able to see Asali and couldn’t attend her graduation from basic training. Finally, by November of last year, she was able to travel to Texas and check on her for a long awaited reunion.
Though the process was difficult at times, LaShawnna recognized her daughter’s abilities were stronger than she had ever realized. Asali remained resilient, determined, and motivated throughout her training – strengths that she had always displayed but were amplified by the intense process.
“Asali has always been a hard worker with a heart of gold,” LaShawnna says, “but her perseverance and growth during her training have been inspiring to witness. It pushes me to continue being an example for her and her sister, so they see that they can do hard things and do good things.”
Asali is currently a Private First Class in the Army living on base in Texas. LaShawnna Harris is the Founder of sharEDtalent and Creative Station, and was the award recipient of Communitas America Ventures Program Cohort 2.
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